We spent our first
summer in Kathmandu, Nepal, working hard learning to speak some of the Tharu
language while becoming friends with Kissan and learning about his life and culture. It was hard for him because he had to leave his wife and baby in the village. Kissan's daughter Mina, pictured below, was the same age as Jonathan.
When the summer was over and the monsoon season came to an end, Bill and Kissan returned to the village. Bill went to
arrange for permanent housing for us. He was able to rent the only brick structure in
the village for $5 a month, though it needed much work which we were required
to pay for. It was brick on the outside, yet to be completed with the typical cow dung and mud floors and walls. Plus it still was without a roof.
We also needed a clean source for water and Bill arranged to have dug the only village pump in town. This we willingly shared with the rest of the villagers, glad we could provide them with a healthier source of water too (Jenny likes the focus on clean water for all villagers as she is currently working on her masters in public health). We spent many hours around this pump...washing clothes and pumping
drinking water, and talking with all the village women.
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The day before our scheduled flight to the village, Jonathan broke out with measles. Then there was so much rain that our flight to the village was almost cancelled. But in spite of these challenges, we were able to leave anyway. When God leads He provides.
After a bumpy landing, we found a new friend who spoke English. He worked for USAID and was stationed in Bharatpur (our airstrip town), getting ready to leave the country. His wife and baby were already gone. He sold us all his baby furniture to use in our new village home. This meant Jonathan had a real crib and high chair. Here's a picture of Jonathan in his crib on one of our first night's there. His crib was right next to our sleeping bags (on top of a straw mattress on a string frame). Notice the mischievous smile on his face. :)
After a bumpy landing, we found a new friend who spoke English. He worked for USAID and was stationed in Bharatpur (our airstrip town), getting ready to leave the country. His wife and baby were already gone. He sold us all his baby furniture to use in our new village home. This meant Jonathan had a real crib and high chair. Here's a picture of Jonathan in his crib on one of our first night's there. His crib was right next to our sleeping bags (on top of a straw mattress on a string frame). Notice the mischievous smile on his face. :)
Later we planned to have cement counters installed in the kitchen with shelves underneath. These would hold our kitchen supplies, but not keep out the mice and roaches. We had one kerosene burner to cook on and a fold up camp oven I could make bread in. There was no fridge so we needed to purchase fresh buffalo milk daily. We had all grown quite used to the taste of buffalo milk by now.
We also built an Indian style outhouse (no seat, just squatting down), with thatch walls that the village kids liked to peer through when we used it.
According to my journal,
the first day there was wild: “Jon fell out of his crib on his head, I fell down the
stairs and Bill pounded his thumb and finger and the rest of the house is definitely not
finished. Plus we had a rat disaster of our stored things with much of our
clothes chewed up. But, praise the Lord,the roof was on so we’re staying here…..The
challenge now is the floor—mud and very wet. We walk sloshing around and Jon has
a cold already.
"The first morning we
were awakened by our landlady standing over our bed speaking loudly to us in
Tharu. We thought we’d closed the doors which meant no entry. But we soon learned
they could do what they wanted in and with the house—including
taking things they liked. It was challenging due to language limitations and
cultural expectations to navigate the fine line of privacy and friendship.
“But the people are very friendly and helpful, especially all the children in and out of our house every day. It’s the custom to go in and out of each other's house. Once in our house I asked a boy whose house this was and he answered quite firmly that it was his--of course--everyone knew that! So we are learning culture as well as language.”
“But the people are very friendly and helpful, especially all the children in and out of our house every day. It’s the custom to go in and out of each other's house. Once in our house I asked a boy whose house this was and he answered quite firmly that it was his--of course--everyone knew that! So we are learning culture as well as language.”
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