Saturday, November 19, 2016

Sufficient Courage: Called to Ohio University, Year 1

And so we were HOME in a new state, new rental house, new job, with old friends left behind and new friends to be made. Athens, Ohio, and Ohio University, were places of calling and deep fulfillment. Though my health continued to be a challenge, I especially loved the scenery driving from OU to our rental place on the mountain.


Plus, it was a great place for our kids to visit as you can see in some candid shots below. During this year, Jonathan continued his work in Oklahoma and Jenny got a job in Chattanooga at a group home with "clients" of varying disabilities and mental health issues. She could tell you lots of stories about physical and even sexual assault by the clients and the equally "interesting" staff. And yet she says it was one of her favorite jobs. Due to some personal challenges, however, she ended up moving home, which we loved, where she prepared for the next adventure--living in Brussels, Belgium.


It turned out that friend Paul Petrie had helped start a church in Brussels and they needed help in their office. So Jenny, the highly gifted nomad and daughter of a nomad, volunteered for a move to test out her French and wanderlust. It also meant we would have some chances to visit her there as well as seeing good friends Paul and Rebecca.

Back to my first year at OU. Before I tell you all I did during these years, all the publications, presentations, travels, etc., I want to make it clear that this job was an assignment I had been given from my Heavenly Father. Working in academia, in any university, has its own set of challenges, but both Bill and I felt that God had called us there to plant seeds of His kingdom, to demonstrate His love in each relationship. And, like the apostle Paul said, "I eagerly expect and hope that I will in no way be ashamed, but will have sufficient courage so that now as always Christ will be exalted in my body,whether by life or by death. For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain." (Philippians 1:20-21)

In this new and great assignment, I had opportunities to make and love many new and wonderful colleagues. Dr. Alice Blake-Stalker welcomed us, even putting us up while we waited for the moving truck. Dr. Joan Safran was one my first friends and also a suite mate. She's also the first one to encourage me to begin swimming regularly, something I still do today. We became good friends with her and her husband Dr. Steve Safran, and were soon to be next door neighbors on "the ridge" for the next 12 years!

Many more colleagues were to become good friends too. Plus I loved teaching classes in reading, children's literature and gifted education. Being engaged with the students was a privilege--in spite of all the "other" work, like advising grad and undergrad students, serving on committees, going to meetings, and learning the Language of Academia. All that plus continuing an active research agenda was a challenge I enjoyed.

Based on my dissertation research, and the continuing study of children's literature, I had become increasingly fascinated with the "gray genre" that I renamed the informational storybook. It's really just a parable story where informational truth is embedded in a text. It's how Jesus did it. By now I had published several articles on the topic and had met with Joanna Cole and Bruce Degan, creators of The Magic School Bus books, several times as I wanted their thoughts as well. Here are a couple pics of us together after having breakfast together at one conference. If you're really interested in more details, I can send you links for lots of papers written on this!


Michael Kearney (see my previous post) was also intrigued with this crazy genre and we decided to together explore its benefits to kids. We ended up publishing a paper called, "What’s So Magical About Those Magic School Bus Books?" We, including younger sister Maeghan and their parents, and also presented at conferences together. Plus I co-authored a paper on giftedness with his parents, "The World's Youngest University Graduate: Examining the unusual characteristics of profoundly gifted children." Below you can see Michael and Maeghan helping me get ready for a presentation on giftedness. You can tell they were having fun, and maybe a little bit apprehensive about talking in front of a large audience!


We also had fun while waiting!


It was also a year of finding a home at Central Avenue Methodist church where we began some friendships that have spanned more than two decades. Bill and I began teaching Sunday School for kids 2-10 and loved that. Then I was invited to teach a Bible Study for women. 40-50 women met each week to study together what God said about women following Him in today's crazy world.

We also began a lifelong friendship with Keith and Darlene Wasserman. We much admired their work with Good Works to help the homeless in southeast Ohio. Bill later became an active part of their board, including serving as chair for a time. Early on we met Nadia Mitchell who later became one of my OU doctoral students and now works with Jonathan at Milo's! The list goes on and on, as you will see in postings to come.

Bill spent this first year applying to OSU and taking some math stat courses at OU so he could help me with my research data. He also spent the year taking good care of me in this life transition. How deeply grateful I am for my loving, supportive husband. Father knew exactly what I needed in life to follow Him all my days. Here he is, thinking deep thoughts no doubt, in my new office.


Philippians 3:7-11: "...whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead."

Saturday, November 12, 2016

A Swiftly Tilting Summer (with apologies to Madeline L'Engle): From Alabama to New Hampshire to Athens, Ohio

I, the nomad, had never lived anywhere in my life for more than 6 years at a stretch: 6 years in Chicago, 6 years in Glendale, 6 years in La Crescenta, 6 years in La Mirada, 6 years in Nepal, 6 years in Oklahoma, 6 years in Kentucky, 6 years in Alabama (two stays of three years each). Yet this place called Athens was going to take the prize.

But what happened before Athens and after the time with the smartest kid in the world? And where was the million dollars? Well, royalty money doesn't happen until after the book is published ... and sold. That took a couple years of writing, editing, and then getting into production. By then it was time for the second edition work. But the book took off and was a huge success, becoming a national leader in special education.

But before the nomad moved on, I must tell you about one special gift during the years in Mobile. I had the joy of teaching a group of junior high school girls what the Bible says about being a woman of God. We got together for Sunday School as well as doing other fun things. Once we had a "come as you are" breakfast. We went around early one Saturday morning and collected the girls in their PJs (parents had been warned beforehand!) and brought them to our home for breakfast and fun. We did service activities to help older people we loved as well. Often we just got together to hang out and talk about life. These gals are still close to my heart and many of you are now Facebook friends.....and more.


We also made trips back to see family and friends in Lexington. When there, I often tried to get my former students together, these the Lord has written on my heart for all eternity. They were growing up so fast. And now they have kids of their own. The Lord is so good!


But what was next? After three years in Mobile we knew another move was coming. Bill and I had been praying and asking God what He had next for us. Bill wanted to pursue a PhD program in computer science and we agreed that I needed a good university setting where I could put down roots while he went to school (we always seemed to take turns putting each other through school!).

Our hearts felt drawn for job and school options to the northeast part of the US and to places that had well respected PhD programs in computer science as well as excellent colleges of education. So I applied to three universities that had both (one in North Carolina, one in West Virginia and one in Ohio), interviewed in the three, and was eventually offered positions at all three.

Even before offers came in, the Lord put a peace in my heart for OU. I wrote on April 2, 1994: "Ohio University called to offer me the job. It wasn't a surprise when they called, for there is a joy and sense of purpose in this job, His provision." So, yes, the only one I accepted was Ohio University where Bill could then attend Ohio State University in computer science.This was the beginning of another whole HUGE adventure. It also meant our kids could continue their education -- with free tuition for kids of faculty. How cool is that? And here we wouldn't be too far from friends and family in Lexington, KY. Both our kids seemed settled for now, with Jonathan accepting a new job for the Edmund Evening Sun and Jenny negotiating a job in Chattanooga while living with her college friend Laura.

So, we said good by to our Mobile friends, including Lawlers, Rannells, Thomsons, Robinsons, Kearneys, and so many other heart friends. We had finished packing and were waiting for the Bekins moving van to do their part and arrive in the morning. We waited ... and waited ... and waited. By noon the van had still not shown up. Eventually they called and said they wouldn't make it that day. They wouldn't guarantee when or anything. We said we had to get out of the house as the new owners were moving in. They then said they would pick up and store the things there in Mobile until August and then move it. That was about when the house rental in Athens would be available, so we did what we could only do ... agreed to wait. Sound familiar?

But while waiting we took a wonderful, much needed rest in New Hampshire at what we now call our "home away from home" named Ledgedge. (I look back and marvel at all the car travel we did and how much energy that now takes!) Our good friends Brian and Kathy Emmet were co-owners and have offered this place of rest to us year after year. We are SO grateful for this place where we really do rest and are refreshed year after year. We found it restful even without indoor plumbing. The "john" was on a hill that we climbed to as needed. Later indoor plumbing was added.

This place of refuge became our annual pilgrimage and our true "home away from home." It's a place of peace where the Lord has restored our souls year after year, much like Psalm 23:1-2 where He leads us by still waters. Here are just a few photos of this resting place, our "green pastures."
The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside still waters;
He restores my soul.
Scenes of Ledge Edge
OK, so the moving truck really DID come and move-in day finally arrived, as it almost certainly does. Bekins finally arrived with all our "stuff" that had been moved in and out of storage. In Athens, first they moved our things into our home and then the remaining boxes into my office in McCracken Hall at OU. I remember climbing three flights of stairs up to the third floor as the elevator wasn't working and they had to carry my boxes of books! They delivered all as promised, but with many things missing and pieces of furniture broken. Another chance to forgive and let go of earthly belongings.

I wrote of our rental home on Clarks Chapel Road, "It is so beautiful here. We're surrounded by trees, grass, wildflowers, mountains--all green and spacious. I'm so very grateful for this provision." So our next season of life, in Athens, Ohio, and my new placement at OU had begun, with deep joy and gratefulness that the Lord of our Journey had gone before and prepared the way.

Ohio University